Information on Escape the Trap

Escape the Trap is an 8 week programme for girls, aged between 13-16, who are vulnerable to or are experiencing domestic abuse. The programme is designed to inform young people about healthy and unhealthy relationships and what these both look and feel like. The aim is to provide a safe space to discuss and learn about the dynamics of power and control at a much earlier stage.

This can be done either individually or in a small group setting.

A BAD RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T ALWAYS HIT YOU IN THE FACE...

CAN YOU RECOGNISE THE SIGNS?

Loves me not…

• Tried to control me

• Gets violent, and loses their temper quickly

• Always blames me

• Is sexually demanding

• Keeps me from seeing my friends and family

• Makes all the decisions

• Embarrasses me in front of others

• Hits me

• Makes me cry

• Makes me feel afraid

• Is always ‘checking up’ on me

• Takes my money and other things

• Threatens to leave me if I do not do as I am told

• Teases, bullies and puts me down

Love me…

• Makes me feel safe

• Makes me feel comfortable

• Listens to me

• Values my opinions

• Supports what I want to do in life

• Is truthful with me

• Always tries to understand how I feel

• Likes that I have other friends

• Makes me laugh

• Trusts me

• Treats me as an equal

• Respects my family

• Understands my need for time alone or with family

• Accepts me as I am